By: Dr.Savita
Source: The Daily Guardian https://epaper.thedailyguardian.com/view/1746/the-daily-guardian%09/14
Dated: December 7th, 2024

It is said that man is a social animal. This acknowledges the fact that we are inherently social beings who thrive in the company of others and depend on social interactions for survival, well-being, and development. From infancy, we rely on caregivers for physical and emotional support. As we grow, we continue to seek companionship, affection, and approval from others. Social interactions shape our self-identity and behaviour. Our relationships and the understanding that individuals contribute to the well-being of the group, and in turn, the group supports the individual, form the bedrock of communities.

The sustenance we receive from others in terms of material help, services, and emotional and spiritual aid, fosters in us a desire to give something in return, to be of value to the society we live in. Doing this gives meaning to our life, uplifts others, and enhances our self-esteem. 

But not everyone has the resources to serve society in a tangible manner. Charities and philanthropists can do it in obvious ways, but what about ordinary citizens? Those with some talent or expertise can contribute their knowledge, skill, and experience. But what avenues of service are available to the truly modest masses, and to those whose enfeebled condition does not allow them to serve? Can they even hope to serve?

Some of the most powerful ways of service actually require neither money nor power – power as it is generally understood in the world.

Speaking words of encouragement to someone who is struggling; giving time, attention, and company to a dejected or lonely soul; bringing the light of friendship and joy into someone’s loveless life; and merely offering a smile to others costs us nothing. Even the most indigent can do it.

One can serve even if one is isolated and rarely gets to meet anyone. How do you do that? Simply have good wishes for everyone. When we become naturally benevolent in our thoughts and attitude, the goodwill radiating from our person uplifts all who come in contact with us. It soothes the forsaken, comforts the unhappy, and gives strength to the dejected.

Such service can bridge divides — of culture, race, class, and ideology — by fostering a sense of shared humanity. That is not all. When we help others, even through small acts - or just thoughts - of kindness, we contribute to a legacy of goodwill that inspires others to do the same. This creates a ripple effect that spreads positivity in communities. 

We also grow in the process. Serving others shifts our focus from individual gain to
collective well-being. After all, life is about more than just personal success — it is also about contributing to the welfare of others and the greater good. This is why several religious and philosophical traditions emphasise the importance of serving others as a moral or spiritual duty. Selfless service brings us closer to the ideals of kindness, justice, and solidarity that are essential for an enlightened life in a troubled world.

B.K. Dr. Savita is a Rajyoga teacher 
at the Brahma Kumaris headquarters in Abu Road, Rajasthan.