No matter how many things are going right in our life, we tend to talk about problems in our health, finances, relationships and work instead of the good and positive things in our life. Check if your conversations focus around positives in your life or negatives. Do you mostly discuss issues and expect people to take pity? Even if people have the best intentions for you, their vibrations of anxiety, fear, sadness or stress radiate to you. This energy reduces your inner strength required to resolve the problem. Talking about worries and problems is a total waste of time, of mental and emotional energy and takes us away from solutions instead of towards them. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keeps you very busy doing nothing.
Do you believe that you will feel lighter after sharing your problems with others? Repeatedly talking about problems can never solve them. Even when our discussions are finished we still go into the whys, whats, whens and hows of the issues causing us inner dissatisfaction and leakage of soul power.
People's behavior is an external force and not in our control. The thoughts we create in response is an internal energy which is completely our choice.
It is always our choice.
To talk about positive issues … or discuss problems.
To be quiet ... or defend yourself.
To listen ... or to walk away.
To complain ... or offer a solution.
To be kind ... or hurt through words.
It is always your choice.
You have so many things going perfect in your life. Choose to talk about them using positive language about yourself and your ability to resolve the issue and achieve your goal. Talk with an attitude of gratitude, goodness and positivity in life, which energizes yourself and people to come out of the toughest situations in life. Even when there is an external situation of conflict, chaos and confusion, have no internal chaos, only power in your thoughts. So you make decisions easily and quickly, find a lot of your time and energy is saved, and enjoy all the situations that come.
When the intellect is accomplished with powerful thoughts, waste thoughts cannot enter. Only when the intellect remains empty there is no place for waste thoughts to enter. To be busy with elevated thoughts is to keep the mind free from waste. All it needs is to turn on the switch of one powerful thought, then wastage finishes. When I make the practice of keeping a single elevated thought in my intellect, I am able to be free from the bondage of wastage. Choose and practice throughout the day:
"I am confident and capable in everything I do."
“God is doing and I am enjoying.”
"I am worthy of love and respect."
"I embrace change and welcome new opportunities."
"I am in control of my thoughts and emotions."
"Every day, I am becoming a better version of myself."
This is just like a switch which brings light and finishes darkness.
Sister Chirya is a student and teacher with
the Brahma Kumari's World Spiritual University
for over 40 years. She is published globally.
