'We have developed speed, but we have shut ourselves in. Machinery giving abundance has left us in want. Our knowledge has made us cynical; our cleverness, hard and unkind. We think too much and feel too little. More than machinery, we need humanity. More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness. Without these qualities, life will be violent and all will be lost.' ~ Charlie Chaplin

It’s the Holiday Season and so many Christmas trees decorated with beautiful lights are twinkling at present. Each one of us souls can be likened to a bulb on this spiritual tree of humanity. God is the seed of this tree. When we have connection with God, the Eternal Seed, the light of the soul becomes lit. Peace is one of the gifts received from the Father. Peace gives so much happiness because it is our original state.

Peace, happiness and love do not depend upon a large bank balance or any physical thing. Many gifts do not even cost a cent. In the sanctuary of silence deep within the soul is an imperishable treasure store of virtues and positive attitudes. To wake up Christmas morning knowing you have life is in itself quite a gift. Even if you have nothing at least give the gift of a smile.

The way to silence and its treasures is the practice of meditation, which allows us to Stop, take a minute, and listen to the silence within. This controlling power helps us to pause and choose thoughts beneficial to the self and others and then speak or act. By going within, we experience the stillness and pure love at the core of our being, and feel true peace, real power, and freedom.

True controlling power is self control, the ability to control our thoughts. Don't let thoughts from others or negative opinions become obstacles or distract you from your purpose. Stay steadfast on your path. If you allow others' negative comments to control your thinking, it can weaken your confidence and self-belief. Your spiritual light will become dim. Controlling Power does not mean to control others. Rather it helps us remember our life's purpose is ours alone, and the determination to achieve it must come from within oneself.

In this way become like a teacher who inspires by touching the hearts of others rather than the head. Teaching others means being subtle and explaining in such a way that their mind opens because the heart has understood. Just like our spiritual Father, by recognizing the specialties within each one, no comparisons are made. We are able to look at the qualities in others and have good wishes for their progress, like a parent whose love for the child makes him grow.

Sister Chirya is a student and teacher with      
the Brahma Kumari's World Spiritual University      
for over 40 years. She is published globally.